Did I c-u-m or did she?

well I can tell you my husband has ejaculated without orgasm before, and there has been times he didn't feel a thing and ejaculated but could still go on and on because he didn't orgasm. It happens, it's the human body, pretty unpredictable. That being said, the "pull out" method is just dumb to use. My best advice to you is GET MARRIED, then you can ejaculate all you want. ( My husband and I have never used anything but birth control pills because we saved ourselves for marriage and each other and the sex is great) but if your not going to take that advice then use a condom.